How to Talk to Your Doctor About Hair (A Friendly Script)

For many men, bringing up hair loss with a doctor feels awkward. It shouldn't be—it's a common medical condition with proven treatments. Here's how to have that conversation productively.

Before the Appointment

• Note when you first noticed thinning
• Take photos showing current state
• Research family history of hair loss
• List any treatments you've already tried
• Write down your questions

Questions to Ask

• "Based on my pattern, what type of hair loss do you think this is?"
• "What treatment options would you recommend for my situation?"
• "What are the realistic expectations for results?"
• "What are the potential side effects I should know about?"
• "Should I see a dermatologist for a more detailed evaluation?"

If They Dismiss Your Concerns

Some doctors minimize hair loss as "cosmetic." If you feel dismissed, it's okay to say: "This is affecting my quality of life and I'd like to explore treatment options. Can you refer me to a dermatologist who specializes in hair loss?"

Telehealth Alternative

If you prefer not to discuss hair loss with your regular doctor, telehealth platforms like Hims, Keeps, or Roman connect you with providers who specialize in this area. No awkwardness, no explanation needed—hair loss is literally their specialty.